Feeling breakup pain, confusion, a desire to succeed. Constantly trying to be a pillar of strength for other while figuring out the meaning of love. Not an easy task.
Rebounded with ex. Or exes to be exact. Two people that I love. And yet, they have failed me so much in so many ways that it confuses me. So instead I have sex with them. Beautiful loving and confusing sex. Because I think that they are beautiful, and they think I'm beautiful. So in a fucked up way its nice to be desired. But honestly I'm having trouble feeling anything but the most surface level feelings. I am warm on the surface but dead cold on the inside. Rolling through the days really. But it's okay.
Third dilator went all the way in today. All the way in. Took some time, was not feeling good due to being on the downswing of the menstrual cycle. Tends to make things feel more burny than usual. But I kept persevering and trying to figure out how the muscles worked. And it didn't seem to be worked but I was so sure I could do it. And then suddenly I feel this gentle current inside me. Seemed to be accepting it like peristalsis almost. and then it was in. Like really in. If I let go of it it didn't get pushed out. Pretty crazy stuff.
Perhaps more perplexing was that although I was expecting to see the dried brown blood that was already inside me, there was a new red blood that also came out. Did that come from me? Did I hurt myself. Was there still hymen? Thinking about that made my head hurt a little. Blood doesn't usually bother me, but vagina blood is a whole other story! It's not the blood itself, but the fact that I had something in me that needed to be broken. Blech. I haven't pushed my body unreasonably, so it could just be an inevitable thing. Glad to have discovered it by my own hands and not somebody else.
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