There's a fine line between virgin and not virgin. Actually, there's no line between virgin and not virgin. Why? Because virginity the concept can be extended to anything. In practice, people seem to hold a lot of worth around penis in vagina = pure. But what about all the exceptions? What about a person who still has tons of anal? Tons of oral? Jerks off in front of a camera? Grinds naked on other people? Is a lesbian? Do you still consider these people virgins? I sure as hell wouldn't, because what really changes after piv sex that doesn't change after these kinds of sex? Except for the fear of pregnancy. In a strong, loving relationship, what really changes from fingers in vagina, mutual jerking off, to piv sex?
I think people are expecting this huge change in their perspective and who they are. But really,this is just like anything else. Its awkward at first, you learn to do it, it feels good, you do it some more. Call me crazy, but I don't see this being that much more different. That said, I would really like to get to that point of course, but I don't see it making me a 'more complete person' although it might help alleviate a lot of sexual tension and further the orgasm seeking cause. And that I can get behind. Or in front of. Or reverse cowgirl, what have you.
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