What Ifs

So say I'm suddenly 100% better one day, that all the vaginal woes that have plagued me just disappeared, and I'm having vaginal orgasms and crazy threesomes with hung dudes and all is well and good. What has really changed? Has the basic makeup of who I am changed? Sure I'll be excited about for awhile, I'll probably tell some trusted friends. I might shed some tears of relief. But other than that, the basic core of who I am will be the same.

Or so I'd like to think. At this point in my self discovery, I have a pretty good idea of the type of sex I'd like to have, and it's gonna be good. It won't be forced, it will be slow and gentle and sexy and relaxing. It will be with people I like. Some days it can be harder, some days it can be softer. Sometimes we can experiment with different positions and methods. Sometimes we talk dirty, sometimes we just laugh, sometimes we are just silently breathing. Sometimes will need lube, other times we will be overflowing with natural excitement. And afterwards, we might take a shower, or maybe we will just fall asleep.

And it sounds quite nice. But wait a minute...I'm already having that kind of sex! Confused yet?

The fundamentals are the same, the mechanics are different though.